Kids’ State Dinner 2012

21 Aug

For weeks, one of the most common questions we were asked was, “What are you going to wear?” Here is what we wore. Caroline’s is wearing “Kohls” and I am wearing “Coldwater Creek.” Isn’t that how famous people describe their outfits?

There are no words.

For a writer, that’s almost impossible: not having the words to describe something, but tonight, as I sit on the final leg of my flight back to Providence, I am at a complete loss for words as I try to even begin describing our trip to Washington DC these last two days.

Some words that have come to mind don’t even touch it, but here they are (and Caroline has helped me with some of them as she sits next to me on the plane, looking over my shoulder):

Overwhelming (in a good way).





Mind blowing.


And fast–so fast.

As this trip was approaching, I tried to imagine in my mind just what it would be like.

I didn’t even come close. The images I came up with didn’t even come close to what it was like in real life. It was 36 hours of my life that I will never, ever forget for as long as I live.

The feeling after it ended was similar to the way I felt after my wedding: elated, exhausted, and wondering if I’d remember everything that took place.

I know that everyone is most interested in the Kids’ State Dinner at the White House, so that’s where I will start today, working backwards as I show and tell for you the events of our trip.

1500 Pennsylvania Avenue. We have arrived.

So sit back and try to envision everything I’m about to tell you. I will try not to leave anything out.

We arrived by two tourist-type busses at 1500 Pennsylvania Avenue at about 9:30 am. We were full of nervous excitement, all 54 kids and their moms, dads or grandparents. Although it had only been less than 24 hours since most of us had met, we already had a bond that seemed for many of us like we’d known each other much longer.

We filed out of our bus and through the gates, walking towards the security checkpoints. There were several and it was a very serious mood that prevailed during the security checks. There were metal detectors, dogs, and many photo ID checks.

When we finished, we lined up outside the White House doors in order by state. We were number 43, behind Puerto Rico and in front of South Carolina.

Immediately, we were in a different place and time. We were in the White House being treated like royalty.

As we got closer to the doors to the White House, the most beautiful music could be heard. When we entered we realized that it was live music, specifically, harp and flute or maybe piccolo music being played for our entrance. It was so beautiful and we felt so elegant, so grand, so special.

We walked in, trying to take in the splendor of the White House as much as we could. There were paintings of presidents on every wall as well as framed photo collages on the walls as we walked. There were military men and women every few feet, greeting us.

At our first stop we received two little envelopes. Our names were on them in red calligraphy. They had the raised gold seal which we’ve now seen several times, but still gives me goose bumps every time I receive a new one. These were our place cards to tell us what table we were at: Table 12.

Our first announcer, and in the photo you can see some of the photographers in the next room. As much as they’d warned us that there would be a ton of press there, I was totally unprepared for just how much “a ton” was.

At our next stop we were announced by an announcer with a big, booming voice, just the way they announce people at the “real” State Dinners: “Miss Caroline Cowart- Rhode Island, Egg White Omelet with Broccoli and Cheese, and Ms. Jennifer Cowart”

When we entered that room there must have been 100 reporters and photographers staring at us, smiling. We stopped, smiled, waved, and then kept going. Someone in the front row said, “Yes, you’re the celebrities now,” and it really did feel like it.

From there, we entered a sort of kids’ cocktail hour. There were fancy lemonade and juice types of drinks in cute little glasses and bottles with tons of pretty fruit arrangements almost too pretty to eat. There was an entertainer making really cool balloon animals, crowns, and just about anything you could imagine. Caroline scored a Roadrunner and instantly named him Rhody, in honor of our little state. He was purple and he almost made it home with us, until we had to go through security at the airport in DC. Then Rhody’s day was over.

While we watched the balloon guy doing his crazy tricks, Caroline spotted a star. Reed Alexander, who played the role of Nevel Papperman from Nickelodeon’s iCarly was sauntering around the party himself, just hanging out and taking photos with kids.


Yup, just standing there among us. Crazy.

Also present and up for photos was Sam Kass, White House Chef and one of the judges of the contest. He had a super personality and we spent some time with him when we toured the gardens as well.

Finally, it was time to get in line again. It was time for the photos with Mrs. Michelle Obama. It was the moment we had all been waiting for.

We lined up and waited.

And waited.

Just when we thought we’d moved up to the room where the photos were going to be, we realized that it was actually the room before the room. So we waited some more, but it seemed to move fast, now that we were closer.

“She’s quite the hugger,” said one of the security guards in the waiting room. “So don’t be surprised if she gives you a big hug.”

Sam Kass, one of the head chefs from the White House. He was fabulous.

Good to know.

I peered in.

“She’s tall,” I said.

He agreed.

“She’s tall and she’s not afraid to wear some big heels too.”

I looked in again.

“I love her shoes,” I said.

And suddenly, before we knew it, we were being announced again in that same loud booming voice, and there standing before us was Michelle Obama, arms outstretched.

Caroline was announced first and went in first, into the welcoming arms and big hug of Mrs. Obama.

I followed her.

I hugged Michelle Obama. I squeezed her. I didn’t want to let go. She was beautiful, with a warm and inviting personality that just exuded from her.

She greeted us and told Caroline how happy she was to see us, and how excited she was for the events of the day.

The professional photographers snapped our photo about a half dozen times (we had no personal belongings or cameras with us in the room) and we were done, moving into the dining room.

We were all the way to the right side of the room at our table, so this gives you a view of the entire room almost. You can see how much press there was in that room with us as well as how beautiful the room was.

I was again, unprepared for what I saw next. Again, it exceeded my wildest imagination.

The dining room was huge with gorgeous chandeliers and rich, yellow draperies. And there were again, hundreds of reporters and photographers. All you could hear were cameras snapping as they filled two walls of the room, three people deep on both sides. I looked around the room and it was so, so surreal. That’s the best way I can explain it.

The tables were set up for us with gorgeous red presidential place settings. This had been one of my ponderings these past few weeks: what would the dishes look like? They were gorgeous.

Our place settings and the plates

They had beautiful place cards at our tables written in red but lined in gold. We had a copy of the Winning Lunches Cookbook on each of our plates as well as a menu stating what we’d be eating for lunch and what state winner it had come from. We were thrilled to find out that one of our new friends from Kansas, Rori, was having her meal featured as the main dish: Yummy Cabbage Sloppy Joes.

There were Kale Chips from New York, which tasted just like potato chips, as an appetizer.

The little added touches made all the difference: pretty centerpieces made of fruits and flowers, a map with our state on it in front of our spot, a “Let’s Move” bracelet as our napkin ring around our white linen napkins.

When we were all in and all seated, Michelle Obama was announced. She walked right by our table. I was still star-struck even though we’d just met her and hugged her.

Tanya Steel Editor In Chief at Epicurious, spoke at the podium first, followed by Marshall Reid, the 12 year old co-author of the book, “Portion Size Me.”

Mrs. Obama was wonderful when she spoke, congratulating us all.

Finally, Mrs. Obama spoke.

I can’t even tell you what she said, specifically, but it included lots of congratulations and warm words, how proud she was of every winner there and the family members with them for entering, for winning, for promoting healthy eating among families. She was a wonderful speaker, happy and fun. Whatever she was selling, I was buying it.

The food was served. We had Quinoa, Black Bean and Corn salad from Arizona, which was my first time eating quinoa, and I loved it. Caroline loved it too. We both finished it down to the last drop. We both took pictures of our plates.

Waiters came around pouring juices for us, Caroline had orange and I had cranberry. Our water was served in pretty little mason jars with pixie straws. I hated to use them, they were so cute.

The main dish came out, Rori’s Yummy Cabbage Sloppy Joes along with North Carolina’s Baked Zucchini Fries. They were both fabulous and again Caroline and I found ourselves photographing our empty plates.

One of my favorite photos from our day: Caroline meeting and shaking hands with President Obama.

Suddenly, however, Michelle Obama jumped up and quickly went back to the microphone.

“Ladies and gentlemen,” she said. “I’m sorry for this interruption but I have an announcement. I’ve just gotten word that a special visitor is on his way in to say hello to you.”

And then I jumped up and out of my seat.

I am a journalist at heart I guess.

I was the only one standing at that moment, well, it was me and Michelle.

Obama that is.

My new BFF.

Good thing I was on my feet, because in walked the President of the United States.

And suddenly we were ALL on our feet.

To say we were astounded doesn’t even cover it.

You should have heard the cameras snapping.

I can still hear it.

He went to the podium. They hugged. (So cute.)

He spoke to us and again, although I can’t remember each and every word (I was wishing I had a notebook and pen) he was proud. His words were congratulatory. He said he can make a decent omelet and I thought of Caroline’s recipe. I bet he’d like it. He spoke for quite a few minutes and then as he finished and we all cheered and clapped, he headed over to our side of the room to exit.

Or so I thought.

No. He didn’t leave. He stayed and shook EVERY SINGLE hand in the room. Every single one of us, both children and adults got a greeting, a handshake, tons of photos, and oftentimes a “Good Job” or a “Congratulations, what was your recipe?”

I was shaking. My hands were shaking. My whole body was shivering. I was on sensory overload between the food, the cameras snapping and the fact that in one hour’s time I’d met both the President and First Lady of the United States and here I was putting food into my mouth as if this was pretty much a normal course of events in my daily life.

Caroline leaned over.

“I’m shaking,” she said.

I hear ya.

Just when you think it can’t get any better than that, it did.

What’s that saying on infomercials, “But Wait, There’s More!”

And there was.

A private concert from Big Time Rush, a band featured Nickelodeon. The kids had front row seats, right in front of the band. Mrs. Obama stated that when grown ups come to the White House they are not allowed to sit on the floor in front of the band.

As we had our Summer Fruit Garland from South Dakota and our Strawberryana Smoothies from Hawaii, the kids were treated to a LIVE performance by the Nickelodeon band, Big Time Rush. They played about five different songs and the kids all sat on the floor in front of the stage, listening and watching.

I watched Caroline and I thought, “I can never, ever top this experience. Not for her, not for any of my other children. Not in my lifetime.

It was a crazy, crazy feeling of just the utmost, tip top, experience ever.

Overwhelming (in a good way).





Mind blowing.


And fast–so fast.

This was much bigger than just “quality time” together, but we did get a lot of that as well. It’s a trip we will never, ever forget.

*Check back tomorrow for a recap from more of our whirlwind trip to DC!*

28 Responses to “Kids’ State Dinner 2012”

  1. Mary Ouellette August 21, 2012 at 9:58 am #

    Wow Jen. I have goosebumps. So happy for you two! Again, yay Caroline!!!!

  2. Selene Kempton August 21, 2012 at 10:02 am #

    How TOTALLY fabulous!! I felt like I was right there with you! Congratulations to you and your wonderful daughter! 🙂 Hugs from MA. BTW, are you headed to regionals on Saturday?

  3. Kim August 21, 2012 at 10:16 am #

    Holy COW it sure was amazing, awesome,surreal,fancy,extraordinary. I am so very Proud of our kids and OUR White HOUSE and First Family.

  4. Jennifer Lynch August 21, 2012 at 11:40 am #

    Wow, Jen – just Wow!! What a truly amazing experience for both you & Caroline. Think of how many times she (and you!) will be sharing this story …. it will be one passed down through the generations. Very cool. Congrats to both of you! 🙂

    • thewholebagofchips August 21, 2012 at 12:13 pm #

      I know it, We also have so many momentos, I can’t want to frame them along with some photos!

  5. Deb Pjojian August 21, 2012 at 12:29 pm #

    I’m literally crying tears of joy for you and your daughter! So happy for you. Did you check out her eyebrows? 😉

    • thewholebagofchips August 21, 2012 at 2:06 pm #

      I did!!! I had to step back and really look up though. She is so tall!! The answer is: drawn not real. I emailed Stacey first thing last night when I got home to let her know I completed my mission.

      • Deb Pjojian August 21, 2012 at 8:58 pm #

        Wow! I can’t believe they’re drawn! I guess she’s got a really great make-up person. Can’t wait to hear more about your adventure.

  6. Arlene Daley August 21, 2012 at 5:05 pm #

    Caroline, I am so proud of you. You have accomplished so mcuh in your short life. How many 12 year olds can say they have been to dinner at THe White House? These are memories that you will have forever. It seems like yesterday that you were in Kindergarten.

    • thewholebagofchips August 21, 2012 at 5:21 pm #

      Dear Mrs Daily,
      I am so touched to hear this! I love hearing from my friends and family! I had lots of fun and hope to keep in touch!!! 🙂
      Love always,
      Caroline 😀

  7. Jen Waterman August 21, 2012 at 8:30 pm #

    Wow!!! That is just so amazing! Caroline, you are an amazing young woman, so proud of you!

    • thewholebagofchips August 21, 2012 at 8:52 pm #

      ohh thank you soooo much:) I apperciate it a lot. Hope to see you soon:)
      love aways,

  8. kaylin habchi August 21, 2012 at 8:55 pm #

    A little teary reading this blog,BRAVO CAROLINE

  9. Debra Steppel August 22, 2012 at 12:47 am #

    You nailed it so eloquently, Jen! Perfect representation of exactly what happened. I’m sharing this on Facebook so that my friends and family can get an accurate picture of the dinner. Thank you for writing this up so beautifully — my thoughts exactly!

    Stay in touch, and you better call me when you come to Virginia so we and the girls can get together!

    All the best,
    Debra Steppel (a.k.a. Madeleine’s mom)

    • thewholebagofchips August 22, 2012 at 7:13 am #

      I’m so glad you thought so. I wondered what the other parents would think of my interpretation of the day’s event, so I’m glad you thought it was accurate. Thank you! Glad we can all keep in touch!

      • Debra Steppel August 22, 2012 at 8:24 am #

        Definitely! Same here!

  10. Lauri August 22, 2012 at 10:01 am #

    loved reading this!

  11. Barbara Lash August 22, 2012 at 1:20 pm #

    Tears streaming down my cheeks –what an amazing story –your journalistic touich brought it to life and beyond! Congrats to Caroline and YIOU –memories for EVER…….

    hugs, Barbara

  12. Linda Rowan August 22, 2012 at 11:30 pm #

    Caroline will have quite a story to write when the teacher asks the class to write a journal page about what they did on summer vacation. Thanks for sharing the experience and making me feel like I was there.

  13. August 23, 2012 at 7:55 am #

    Amazing job Jen – I felt like I was there, and of course was quite teary eyed. Congrats Caroline on an experience of a lifetime!

  14. Nicole Whittaker August 25, 2012 at 11:23 pm #

    Jen and Caroline,
    I loved reading this story and all the fine details! I’m overwhelmed with excitement for you both!! I keep thinking that one day Caroline will be sharing this story with her grandchildren – what memories!
    Congratulations, Ladies!

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